As the year comes to a close, we’re filled with gratitude and excitement here at TDR Bridal. 2024 has been nothing short of extraordinary, and as we reflect on everything we’ve accomplished, we’re reminded of the wonderful brides, families, and moments that made this year so special. From new beginnings and thrilling trends to prestigious recognitions, here’s our end-of-year roundup.
One of the most thrilling milestones for us this year has been the opening of our Birmingham Bridal Outlet! Expanding to a new location has been a dream come true, and it’s been incredible to see this vision come to life. This space allows us to offer even more brides the opportunity to find their dream wedding dress on a short lead time. At Birmingham Bridal Outlet we have brand new wedding dresses with up to 70% off their original price.
The response so far has been overwhelmingly positive, and we can’t wait to see how our Birmingham outlet flourishes in the new year. If you haven’t visited yet, we’d love to welcome you soon! It’s a space brimming with love, stunning gowns, and all the magic that makes bridal shopping unforgettable.
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Bridal Trends That Stole the Show in 2024
As always, bridal fashion this year was a delight to behold. Some trends emerged as clear favourites, and they were a joy to incorporate into our collections and styling advice for brides. Here are three standout trends that defined 2024:
Bows:
Big, bold, and unapologetically romantic, bows became the darling detail of the season. From oversized statement bows trailing down the back of gowns to delicate accents on sleeves and necklines, this trend added a touch of whimsy and sophistication that brides couldn’t get enough of.
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Classic yet contemporary, pearls dominated bridal fashion in 2024. Whether sprinkled across veils, embellishing gowns, or adorning accessories, this timeless detail felt fresh and elevated. It was wonderful to see brides embrace pearls in new and exciting ways, adding a sense of elegance to their looks.
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Minis were a game-changer this year! Perfect for receptions, second looks, or even the main event, shorter wedding dresses offered a fun, flirty twist on traditional bridal wear. We showcased a stunning array of minis this year, and it was clear that brides loved the versatility and modern vibe they brought to their celebrations.
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Winning not one but two prestigious awards at the Bridal Buyer Awards this year was a moment we’ll cherish forever. We were honoured to be recognised as both the Bridalwear Retailer of the Year AND Inclusivity & Diversity Award
These awards are a testament to the heart and soul of TDR Bridal—our incredible team, the values we uphold, and the amazing brides who inspire us every single day. Being recognised for diversity is especially meaningful to us, as we’ve always been committed to creating an inclusive, welcoming space where every bride feels seen, celebrated, and cherished.
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Supplier for shoot:
TDR Bridal Birmingham @tdrbridalbirmingham
Bohemian Rose Photography @bohemianrosephotography
Through the Lens With Marvin Marius @throughthelensmm
Eyes to Pixels @eyestopixels
The Wedding House Droitwich @theweddinghouse_droitwich
Bridal By Artists @bridalbyartists
MODELS:
Alison @alisonwilliams4617
Betti @wildflowercouple
Katie @katieknowles1
Lena @lenamcallister
Cassie @cassie.faye.x
Liam @liammark95
Maariyah @maari.yah
Nadia @godessdiamonds88
Amy @a_marren
Arti @officialartishar
Faye @faye_adams_
Keziah @keziahnkounkou
Poppy @popular_vipfuturestar
Sherrill @cloudysherrill
Elena @elenaevripidou_
Alison @alisonwilliams4617
Read more about our Inclusivity shoot on the blog HERE
The National Wedding Show
This year we again had very 2 successful National Wedding Shows in Birmingham. This happens twice a year (March and October). We always have the best time meeting brides and showcasing our wedding dress collection.
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The energy at the show was electric, and it was amazing to connect with so many brides-to-be and industry professionals. Seeing the enthusiasm for our collections firsthand was incredibly rewarding, and it reaffirmed why we do what we do. The National Wedding Show is always a highlight, but this year felt particularly special as we saw so many brides embracing bold, modern styles with confidence and joy.
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Our Amazing Team: The Heart of TDR Bridal
None of our successes this year would have been possible without our incredible team. The people behind TDR Bridal are more than just colleagues—they’re family. From our stylists to our seamstresses, every member of the TDR team pours their passion and expertise into making each bride’s journey unforgettable. Hitting over 1000 5 star google reviews was also a massive achievement, showing the care and love of each and every stylist who create a loving and safe environment for each and every bride. Write a review HERE
One of our proudest achievements is the continued growth of the TDR Experience—the personalised, one-of-a-kind service that sets us apart. We’ve worked tirelessly to enhance every aspect of the bridal shopping journey, ensuring that every bride feels supported, celebrated, and truly special from the moment they walk through our doors.
This year, we’ve seen countless smiles, happy tears, and unforgettable “yes!” moments, all thanks to the dedication and heart of our team. As we look ahead to 2025, we’re excited to continue refining and elevating the TDR Experience for our brides.
Looking Ahead: 2025 and Beyond
As we bid farewell to 2024, we’re already looking forward to the possibilities and adventures that 2025 will bring. Our Birmingham bridal outlet is poised for growth, and we can’t wait to see more brides walk through its doors. We’re also eagerly anticipating new collections, fresh trends, and opportunities to connect with even more brides across the country.
Most importantly, we’re committed to continuing our mission of making every bride’s journey extraordinary. Whether it’s through our stunning collections, award-winning service, or commitment to inclusivity, we’re here to make your bridal dreams a reality.
To all the brides who chose TDR Bridal this year—thank you. Thank you for trusting us with one of the most important chapters of your life. It’s an honour to be part of your love story, and we’re endlessly grateful for the joy you bring to our work.
To our team, our partners, and everyone who has supported us this year, thank you for being part of our journey. Your support means the world, and we couldn’t do this without you.
As we close the book on 2024, we’re filled with excitement for what’s to come. Here’s to another year of love, laughter, and unforgettable moments at TDR Bridal. We can’t wait to celebrate with you in 2025!
As it is February, love is in the air, and what better time to talk about the most romantic garment of all – the wedding dress! At TDR Bridal Birmingham, we believe that every bride deserves to feel like a queen on their special day. From classic elegance to modern sophistication, we have a dress to match every love story. This blog will explore the journey of finding the perfect wedding dress, filled with romance, excitement, and a touch of magic.
Chapter 1: The Beginning of the Journey
Every love story starts with a spark, and finding the perfect wedding dress is no different. From the moment a bride-to-be steps into our shop, we become part of her journey towards the most important day of her life. Our experienced Bridal stylists are here to listen, understand, and guide her every step of the way. As she browses through our exquisite collection, she imagines herself walking down the aisle, radiating beauty and grace. Read more about the TDR Experience here…
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Just like finding ‘the one’ in love, finding the perfect wedding dress is all about that magical moment when everything falls into place. It’s the look of awe in the bride’s eyes as she sees herself in the mirror, feeling like a vision of perfection. Whether she chooses a flowing ball gown or a sleek mermaid silhouette, her dress reflects her unique style and personality. With every fitting, every adjustment, she falls more deeply in love with her dream dress.
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A wedding dress is more than just fabric and lace; it’s a symbol of love, commitment, and the promise of forever. As the bride prepares for her special day, she creates memories that will last a lifetime. From the excitement of saying “yes” to the dress to the emotional moments shared with loved ones during fittings, every step of the journey is filled with love and joy. Our team at TDR Bridal feels honoured to be a part of these precious moments, helping to create memories that will be cherished for years to come.
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Carly found her dress with us last weekend. She came with her Aunty Penny and Bridesmaids
As the wedding day approaches, anticipation fills the air, and love blooms like never before. The bride’s dress is more than just attire; it’s a reflection of her dreams and aspirations for the future. With every stitch, we infuse our dresses with love, craftsmanship, and attention to detail, ensuring that each bride feels like royalty on her special day. As she walks down the aisle, surrounded by the people she loves, she knows that her journey towards happily ever after has only just begun.
Conclusion:
At TDR Bridal, love is at the heart of everything we do. From helping brides find their dream dresses to celebrating their love stories, we feel privileged to be a part of such a special journey. As Valentine’s Day reminds us of the power of love, we invite you to visit our shop and discover the magic of finding the perfect wedding dress. Because when it comes to love, every stitch tells a story, and we can’t wait to be a part of yours.
Happy Valentine’s Day!
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Don’t forget to enter our special ‘Galentines Giveaway’!
Once you have booked your First Appointment with TDR Bridal Birmingham you will receive an email notification with a link to our very own Private Client Portal where you can view all our dresses with their prices and you can favourite the ones that you love, so that your stylist can see the dresses you are loving before your appointment. This will help prepare you in becoming familiar with the styles we have and start giving you an idea of what style you may like! However, it is important to note that if you don’t know what style you like, this is fine!!! Most brides will not know what style they love until they begin trying and until your stylist can begin to guide you through this very new journey… and that is ok. Our advice is to be open-minded!
Who to bring?
When shopping for your wedding dress is it really important to bring those with you that will help you make the important decision of choosing your dress. Often, you can feel as though you don’t want to ‘leave anybody out’ and we completely get this, this is a new journey for you and you want to make sure everyone is involved BUT, it is so important to remember that this is YOUR day, YOUR dress and you must choose the dress that feels right for YOU and YOU only. When bringing an entourage of people, often there can be an overwhelming amount of opinions and it can be really difficult to stay focused and be in touch with your feelings, so it is our advice to think very wisely about who you choose to bring with you.
However, we do offer an ‘open door policy’ here at TDR which means you can visit us as many times as you like to try on your dress, so you are more than welcome to bring your friends, family, bridesmaids etc. to TDR Bridal Birmingham to show off your gorgeous dress, once you have chosen!
Let’s Talk Underwear
There is no set rule to underwear, but our recommendation is nude, seamless underwear. You can opt for a strapless bra, however, this is usually not required when trying dresses on as most bridal gowns will already have a built-in bra.
Set a budget – don’t hide this!
Every single bride has a budget and no matter what this is, it’s still very important to set this, so that you have something to stick to. Your stylist will want you to communicate this budget with them so that when they are choosing gowns for you, they can be respectful of your budget, the last thing we want to do is pick a gown out of your price range.
Just to give you an idea of pricing, our dress prices start at around £800 and go up to £3500 with the average price of our dresses are £1500-£1800. Alterations are always a separate charge on top of the price of your dress, so always allow for this within your budget!
Sizing
Please don’t worry about sample sizing, we are an inclusive bridal shop and ensure our sample sizes range from size 8 to size 32, with over 80 dresses Size 18 and above, so we really do have every style from sleeved to low-back to long train wedding dresses to fitted to princess ball gowns, all in a wide variety of sizes. You must also remember that these samples are just for you to try on, not the actual dress you buy. The process for sizing is that we will measure you and order your dress to your nearest size, we have dress clamps, pins and panels to ensure we can fit you into our sample as best as possible so you can visualize your dress!
Who will help me?
We have over 400 gowns in store and it can feel extremely overwhelming when you first begin, some brides either relish in the opportunity to have so many dresses to try on, however, there are other brides that will feel quite daunted by this and not know where to start, but this is what your stylist is there for! Again, we know this is a new experience for our brides so this is why our advice is to let your stylist guide you. Start by choosing the dresses that stand out to you, try different styles (even just to rule certain styles out) and then, by this stage, your stylist will have begun understanding your style preferences, needs and how to dress your body and you will be amazed at how easy this process becomes.
What if I don’t know what I like?
If you are a bride that has scrolled the internet to try and find your perfect style but still hasn’t got an idea of what style to go for, how to fit your style in with your venue, what shape will suit your body etc. THIS IS NORMAL! It is absolutely fine to feel this way, sometimes this is often better. Sometimes brides can get fixated on a certain style of dress and when they try this style on, it may not particularly suit them and they struggle with this concept, so, our advice is to always be open minded, be open to trying new styles and be open to taking advice from your stylist.
Will I buy on my first appointment?
Yes! It is 100% completely normal to find your dress on your first appointment, we have well-trained, experienced stylists that know exactly how to guide you through the process of finding your gown during your appointment time. Do not be scared by this thought! The fact we have over 400 gowns in store is a huge bonus to our brides, as it means we are like 5 shops in 1! We have carefully selected gowns in store, in all sizes, styles and themes, there is literally a dress for every single brides. This is why we are THE best wedding dress shop in Birmingham!
Lastly BUT MOST IMPORTANTLY! You can expect to HAVE FUN!!!
We are all about celebrating EVERY SINGLE BRIDE! We are here to celebrate every single step. TDR Bridal is a place where you can feel confident, learn to express yourself and be supported by a team of ladies who simply love what they do. Take a look at our reviews, see what our brides say, it’s not just a dress, it’s the biggest day of your life and we are here to celebrate every single moment with you! We don’t just sell a dress, we provide an unforgettable service, we cherish life moments, we care, we pay attention to every detail and we take care of everything, right the way through your journey from Miss to Mrs.
We hope this has helped answer your queries and questions about your first appointment with us at TDR, but most importantly we hope you are excited! Of course, as always, please drop us a message, email or call if you have anything more to ask us and we look forward to welcoming you into store very soon!!
Knowing when to shop for your wedding dress can be confusing at best. Here’s some handy tips to help you understand what your options are. Hope it helps
Hey there lovely lady! Wondering when is the best time to start looking for your Wedding Dress?
So, there’s no set “rule” to this, every bride is different. It ultimately depends on you and your individual circumstances. We know that many of our brides have had to postpone wedding dates, or, take the first date available at their wedding venues, so we know its tight, we get it! There is a number of things that are really essential if you are at this stage:
TDR Designers
Our relationship with our designers is SO important. Although our designers have certain standard delivery dates, there are a few, reputable designers, who have a ‘rush cut’ option when ordering, which means your dress will be delivered sooner than ‘standard’.
Alternatively, some of our designers also carry stock of particular gowns in particular sizes, which means they can be shipped straight out to us – sometimes this means you may have to go up a size or two in order to receive your gown in time but do not panic, this is what our onsite seamstresses are here for, they will be able to alter your dress down to your size.
Seamstresses
It is with upmost importance that when searching for your wedding dress, you must do you research to ensure the shop you choose has experienced seamstresses (specifically experienced with wedding dresses).
We have worked with our seamstresses now for over 10 years, they work independently (which means we take no commission from them or have ‘set alteration fees’ which some other shops may have) but they work on-site, which means they are easily accessible, just like us. This also means that we know for certain, that they can alter your dress in 24-48 hours if needs be! Which for you, is peace of mind that if delivery dates are tight, no matter what, we will get you fitted to perfection in time for you to walk down the aisle.
Let’s Talk Timescales
24 – 30 Months Before Wedding Date
You might want to be super organised like some of our brides and shop 24-30 months in advance- this gives you longer to plan, organise & budget well for your wedding.
12 – 18 Months Before Wedding Date
You might want to shop 12 – 18 months in advance- the majority of our brides do this as it still gives us plenty of time for your wedding dress to arrive and for all your fittings to be done.
6 – 12 Months Before Wedding Date
You might only have 6 – 12 months because you got a great deal on a shorter lead time with your venue. This is no problem for us at all. We will still have plenty of time to have your dress made & delivered to us plus we have the added benefit of 4 onsite seamstresses so you’re guaranteed to have your dress fitted perfectly in time for your special day.
1 – 6 Months Before Wedding Date
You might have 1 – 6 months, don’t worry! We can help you! Lots of our Designers hold stock and we are able to “live pick” that stock so that you can have the dress you want in the size that you need. Again, our amazing onsite Seamstresses will get you Aisle ready in no time!
Whatever your timeframe, we’ll always do our very best to make sure you have THE most amazing time with us and that your journey from Miss to Mrs will be full of lots of happiness and memories for you to treasure.
Some say you need to visit lots of different shops to find the perfect dress, our brides say you don’t. That’s because we’ve got over 400 individual styles to suit every shape, size & style and budget plus an unrivalled service too!
When you buy from us you get to meet over 1400 other brides who have bought from us, all of which, will sing our praises and support you too on your journey. It’s totally unique, there’s nowhere else like It.
We really would love to meet you, we really would love YOU to be the next TDR Bride; And we promise you, you’ll have the best time, and we will care for you and look out for you, every single step of the way, You’re In Safe Hands
Inevitably, with the repeated phrase “All Eyes on You”, and “This is the Most Important Day of Your Life”, brides are feeling enormous amounts of pressure and often, find it hard to remain body positive. The wedding industry tend to magnify any insecurities, from weight, to skin complexion, even make it questionable as to whether you should wear your glasses on your wedding day!
As a bride to be, groom, member of the wedding party or even wedding guest, the pressure to look a particular way, in-fact, to look ‘perfect’ is irrefutable. For the bride particularly, there is a phenomenon that you must look your best, this paired with the tremendous amounts of planning, can lead to brides feel overwhelmed and unable to enjoy this experience of a lifetime.
Therefore, we have created this blog to support and guide our brides through the wedding planning process, helping them remain positive throughout, particularly when it comes to their body image!
1. Remember your Feelings
We are no strangers to lacking body confidence and although easier said than done, it is important to remember that all that truly matters, is how you FEEL. During the wedding planning process, brides tend to forget the real reason you are getting married, forgetting how in love and happy you and your fiancé are, and remembering to not focus solely on your appearance.
2. Surround Yourself with Support
After being in the wedding industry for 14 years now, we have seen first hand how comments from a brides loved ones can lead to the bride feeling an enormous amount of pressure to look a particular way. Therefore, surrounding yourself with supportive, people who will help you remain positive and allow you to learn to begin loving yourself, is absolutely essential.
3. Forget the Number
Particularly when it comes to your wedding dress, please forget the number and do not become obsessed with what SIZE is written on the label. Bridal gowns are NOT RETAIL SIZES, they do not reflect your true size and often, you will size up 2/3 even 4 sizes, so it is important to remember the sizes mean nothing, they are simply just a number. Your wedding gown is the most self-expressive garment you will ever wear and it means so much more than simply the label on the inside.
“Skinny isn’t the goal. Happiness is.”
4. Online Advertising Images are Not Real
As you may have noticed, the wedding industry can be bombarded with images online of brides that are not real. However, repeated exposure to this imagery, you begin to feel immense amounts of pressure. So, forget scrolling through Pinterest, Instagram and Facebook to COMPARE, use these platforms as inspiration only.
5. Talk to Other Brides
You aren’t the only one! You are not alone! We can promise you every single bride has felt this pressure at some point, look to them for support and guidance throughout this journey. We have a private group for our TDR brides where they chat most days about all things weddings, we support and guide eachother, which helps you get through the highs and the lows of planning your wedding.
The most important thing to remember is to make sure YOU and your partner are happy, because that is all that truly matters.
Good luck with the rest of your wedding planning!
Lots of love
TDR Bridal Xxxx
Wedding bouquets have been a common wedding tradition for years. But did you know the real reason brides carry a bouquet on their wedding day?!
Many brides believe a wedding bouquet tradition stems (pardon the pun!) from the beauty of flowers, that helps compliment her wedding gown on the most important days of her life. Although bridal bouquets have become a prevalent part of the bride’s outfit, many brides do not know the real reason they wear this on their wedding day; besides romance and visual beauty there is a deeper reason for why brides carry a wedding bouquet.
Tradition
This tradition goes back to the 15th century when people didn’t bathe very often. The most common time to get married was June, with brides having their yearly (yes yearly!!!!) bath in May (Eeeks!). This meant that brides often didn’t smell the best on their special day.
Additionally, wedding dresses would be shared amongst siblings as a tradition and often many families had 9 or more siblings, all sharing the same dress, so by the time this gown was passed down generations it was far from fresh, crisp and clean like wedding gowns today.
Therefore, wedding bouquets were introduced!
Wedding bouquets were used to hide the smell of body odour on their wedding day! Who would have thought that this reason has caused such a big tradition for brides right through to the 21st century!
The Modern Wedding Bouquet
Flowers signify new beginnings, fidelity and the hope of fertility, which is why they were so symbolic for a bride on her wedding day. Forgetting wedding traditions, wedding bouquets, for the modern bride, now symbolise beauty using colours, fragrances and shape. They are now a bride’s common accessory that adds to her overall appearance on their wedding day. Modern brides use a variety of different flowers depending on personal style, taste and personality.
Here are a few modern-day wedding bouquets that we just adore..
“You can splurge on a pricey dress, but if it’s not altered properly it won’t look any better than a gown that’s a tenth of the cost,” says Terry Hall, fashion director of New York City’s Kleinfeld Bridal.
No matter what style gown you choose for your wedding day, the most IMPORTANT part of this, is the fit. Your wedding gown should fit perfectly. Not only should you look amazing, but you should also feel amazing in your wedding gown, ensuring for comfort throughout your entire wedding day.
Here at TDR we have 3 skilled seamstresses who, between them, have over 60 years’ experience working within the bridal industry. We thought it would be useful for our brides to learn more about exactly why alterations are important for the final fit of their wedding gown.
Although we are bursting with knowledge about our wedding gowns, top tips for wedding dress shopping and how to know you have found the one, we needed a little help from our talented seamstresses for this blog. We have put together a few questions that our seamstresses: Lisa, Sati and Annie have kindly answered, that we know you will find helpful!
Why is it important to have a specialist seamstress?
Bridal alterations are like no other, wedding dresses are delicate and complex, so an experienced seamstress is essential, they must have a high level of skill and knowledge. Having your wedding gown altered comes with many complexities and is extremely labor-intensive, from hand sewn beadwork to hand picking the lace from your hem (without any detailing being lost). You as a bride must not worry about your alterations, this is the time for you to communicate effectively with the seamstress to achieve your desired look, but ultimately, put your trust in your seamstress.
What is the difference between alterations and bridal alterations?
The alterations will ensure for perfect fit meeting your specifications and most importantly, make you feel amazing. A well altered gown should support your bust, accentuate and compliment your body shape and be the perfect length, covering your shoes without you tripping over. A skilled, experienced, bridal seamstress will be able to dramatically change the complete look of a dress if required. Bridal seamstresses will be trained in how to make more extensive changes such as customisations like adding sleeves, extending or shortening the train, beadwork, changing buttons, adding a bustle and many many more!
Alterations should ideally begin 6 weeks before your wedding date, however, seamstresses can alter your dress in less time, if necessary. Your final fit will be a week to 2 weeks before your wedding, which will ensure your dress fits you perfectly on your wedding day.
How many fittings will I need?
You will generally need minimum 2 fittings, one to be measured and pinned, the second to try your dress on for any adjustments. Depending on how many alterations your seamstress has had to make, will determine how many seamstress appointments you will need.
When should I stop losing weight?
In terms of alterations, once you have been fitted you must try and maintain your weight, otherwise, you will need further alterations which ultimately, will cost you more.
Please read our ‘Why Not to Loose Weight When Ordering Your Wedding Dress’ for more information about why you DO NOT NEED to loose weight for your wedding day!!!!
What do I need to bring to my alteration’s appointment?
Your bridal shoes
Your wedding underwear (seamless and nude to avoid showing through the fabric)
Bra cups (if you do not have these your seamstresses will have these for you)
Who should I bring to my fittings?
Bringing limited people to your fittings is advised, only bring those with you that you know will help you achieve the best fit. Also bring with you someone you trust to give their honest opinion and someone that will be there on your wedding morning to dress you – please make sure they watch and learn from the seamstress exactly how to fit the dress perfectly e.g. Buttons, corsets or bustles.
Our Wedding Dress Alterations Top Tips
If you want to completely change the style of your dress, this isn’t your dress. Talk to your stylists, take your time and don’t rush, you will find your perfect gown. The worst thing to do is rush into a decision and hope your seamstress can magically create your perfect gown, they are amazing, but there is only so much they can do!
Allow room in your budget for your alterations, they will cost extra on top of the price of your gown, but your seamstress will only charge for the alterations she completes, she does not charge a ‘set price’ for every bride.
You dress will always need altering, these dresses are not made to measure and therefore, alterations are important for the dress to fit perfectly.
Trust your seamstress, they have been doing this for YEARS, they are skilled, experienced and we trust them implicitly, so, you should too!
We hope this blog has helped. You are going to look beautiful!
Lots of love
The TDR Girls Xxx
Getting married is an exciting time for EVERY SINGLE BRIDE and there should be no barriers to this. This is something that means a great deal to us personally here at TDR Bridal and we are dedicated to doing everything in our power to ensure that our brides feel included and valued.
Every bride deserves to be celebrated, every bride deserves to feel incredible, every bride deserves these life moments, without exception!
Shopping for your wedding gown can seem very daunting for brides, with an industry that was once very insular and old fashioned, with set rigid unwritten rules, an industry full of what some may say were traditions and an industry not always great at considering the whole or expanding any further from what they deemed to be “right”.
However, TDR has never thought that way. We have always recognised a need for change in the industry and we have always tried to lead the way for our industry to become more inclusive.
We are proud to be Purple Tuesday members. Purple Tuesday is a programme created and co-ordinate by Purple, a disability organisation that encourages businesses to make changes and to improve the customer experience for individuals with disabilities.
We believe every single bride should have the opportunity to have a wonderful experience when buying their wedding gown, regardless of ability, race, gender or sexuality.
In just the last two years we have:
Installed a downstairs disabled bathroom.
Added ramps to our entrances for easier access.
Increased the size of our changing rooms to accommodate wheelchair access.
Given extra support and training to our staff.
Extended appointment times for individuals with disabilities
BUT WE WILL NOT STOP THERE!
We want to celebrate with everyone, inclusively. We really felt we needed to address the less obvious disabilities too, such as autism, dementia, hearing, or sight. In 2021 TDR Pledge for at least two team members to learn sign language so that we can Say Yes To The Dress and celebrate with every single bride! We also pledge to add the written word to any video we post online so that our content can be enjoyed by a wider audience.
We are making it our goal to take every step we possibly can towards becoming an inclusive environment for our brides, an environment where they feel safe, secure, and most importantly, celebrated.
Because that is what truly matters. For every single bride. No matter what.
We would love to hear any suggestions you may have on how we can be more inclusive, so please feel free to leave us any feedback or suggestions you may have!
You may be very aware by now, that weddings come with their own terminology. Some of which you may have heard time and time before, but others you may be thinking ‘what on earth does that mean?!’. If you have found yourself experiencing the latter throughout your wedding journey thus far, do not panic, that is what we are here to do for you!
We have put together an A-Z run through of all things weddings and all things bridal, in the hopes that you won’t feel in the dark again when discussing your big day! If anything, we want you to feel like a wedding pro!
1. Aisle
Whether you are planning an extravagant church ceremony, or an intimate destination celebration, it is more than likely that you have thought incessantly about the moment you walk down the aisle, to marry the love of your life! Some would say it is one of the most exciting and memorable moments of your big day, walking down the aisle as a fiancé and back up the aisle a newlywed, with lots of smiles (and maybe even tears) in between. There are countless ways that you could decorate the aisle to compliment your big day, from a candlelit walkway to a stunning, simplistic aisle runner or even an abundance of bold and beautiful bouquets, the choice is yours and is definitely something to think about to set the tone for the rest of your celebrations.
2. Bridesmaids
Bridesmaids. Now we know this will be a term you’ve all heard of, you may have even been planning who you were going to ask to be your bridesmaids long before you were engaged (I know I have!) or you may be finding it difficult to choose just a few! Your bridesmaids should be the friends or loved ones that you feel you couldn’t do the most important day of your life without them by your side, through every tear, laugh and celebratory glass of champagne! The people that you can rely on to calm you down through every potential bridezilla moment and to pick you up if wedding planning becomes slightly overwhelming. The people you can trust to tell you the truth when dress shopping and to squeeze your hand that little bit tighter before walking down the aisle! Then, of course, the bridesmaid’s dresses! Finding your loved one’s beautiful gowns to compliment your dream dress adds to the list of endless wedding planning excitement! Whether you have a colour scheme in mind and wish for your bridal party to wear matching gowns, or even having them in entirely different dresses, it all helps your day to be unique to you!
3. Bouquets
Choosing the right bouquet to compliment your dream dress can be the final touch to complete your look, the cherry on the cake! Bouquets can come in so many different styles, colours and sizes which makes them all the more unique and therefore all the more beautiful. You may be more of a simplistic bride, who loves the neutral tones and delicate flowers, or you may be a bride who is all about the drama and LOVES the bright, bold and colourful tones. Either way, having a bouquet to match the theme and/or colour scheme of your day is a touch so beautifully subtle, but one that everybody will notice!
4. Bridal Boutique
Pictured at TDR Bridal Halesowen
Pictured at TDR Bridal Halesowen
(Pictured at TDR Bridal Halesowen)
One of the biggest and most important decisions to make when on your journey of becoming a bride is 100% finding a bridal boutique that you can whole heartedly trust to take care of you and your dress every step of the way! It’s one thing finding a boutique that provides endless stunning gowns for you to try on before experiencing the big ‘Say Yes to the Dress’ moment but it’s another to know that you are in safe hands when it comes to the storage of your dress, the aftercare of your dress and having an overall relaxing and enjoyable experience from start to finish, with never-ending support from the bridal shop team who helped you along the way!
5. Confetti
Picture this, you have just walked back up the aisle, hand in hand with the love of your life, as newlyweds (finally!). You walk out of your wedding venue and are greeted by the smiling faces of your loved ones, dad subtly wiping a tear away in the background, and you are filled with a degree of happiness you never knew possible. Suddenly, your friends and family cheer, throwing confetti in the air, celebrating your love and the love they have for you! Confetti on your big day is, of course, optional but is definitely a beautiful way to start the celebrations as you mean to go on, not to mention the stunning photos!
6. (Say Yes to the) Dress!
The Dress. The majority of us would be lying to ourselves if we tried to say that finding the DREAM wedding dress didn’t slightly take the edge of being the most exciting part of the wedding journey (other than tying the knot of course!). Finding the perfect dress for you is it’s own experience entirely, and should be one you look back on in delight for the rest of your life, where you shed tears of joy with those you love the most, and where you truly start to visualise yourself as a bride for the very first time! If you are approaching your first appointment, it is likely you have had that little worry of ‘how could I possibly find a style that I will fall madly in love with, when there are so many styles to choose from?’, but one thing I can assure you of, is that you will! Your stylists will be with you every step of the journey, working through all styles, colours, designers (you name it!) to find the PERFECT dress for you, and the saying is true, when you know you know and you will never look back! The magic you will feel when finally saying ‘Yes to the Dress’, is a once in a lifetime feeling and you will cherish that moment forever!
7. Enzoani
If you are a bride who has done her research on dress designers, then the name Enzoani will likely be very familiar, if not, I am here to give you an insight into the wonderful mind of an unbelievable designer! Enzoani released their first collection in 2005 and have since catapulted onto the bridal scene with a bang, providing high end quality gowns that combine traditional and modern styles, from the more simplistic satin numbers to gowns laced with flirty and romantic applique. High necks with sweep trains, to low backs and trains so long they take your breath away. All styles oozing with sex appeal whilst still finding the balance of elegance and class – the perfect combination! The attention to detail Enzoani provides is next to none and is 100% worth trying, you will not be disappointed! Enzoani have 4 different collections within the brand: Enzoani, Blue by Enzoani,Etoile and Élysée. All the individual collections put their own stamp on the dresses, from boho chic to sleek & sultry – the list is endless, and you will be sure to find a dress perfect for you!
8. First Dance
The First Dance. Nerve-racking for some, and a chance to show off their dance skills for others, but all in all a beautiful, personal moment between you and your new hubby or wife! The chance to showcase your love to a song that has strong meaning to the both of you and which will forever remind you of this special moment! Some couples choose to go for the more romantic, slow dance, arm in arm with their loved one, swaying along to the music and taking all of the love in. On the other hand, there are couples who may opt for a more upbeat track with a thought-out routine, to really get the party started (which often goes horribly wrong, but that’s part of the fun hey!). The first dance is a moment that you will cherish forever, so make sure to do it as elaborate or laid back as you want to, and most importantly, have FUN!
9. Guest List
The Guest List. Start by writing a list of everybody you had once thought you should invite, because this can be the one topic that causes a little bit of a difference in opinion when wedding planning. Understandably, you want to keep the price to a minimum, whilst not offending people you may have to give the chop! It can be tricky, because it is guaranteed that combined you and your partner know far more people than you had once anticipated, but, our biggest advice here is to ask yourselves ‘who could we not celebrate our big day without?’ and then slowly but surely, go through the list and ask yourself why they should be there.
If you met them in the pub 3 years ago and haven’t seen them since, that’s probably a good enough reason to save yourself a little bit of money and space! Don’t let making your guest list put a dampener on the experience, because at the end of the day, it is your celebration and therefore, entirely your decision (plus, you could always just invite them to the evening do!).
10. Hair Trial / Hair Accessories
Of course, one thing every bride wants on their big day, is to feel and look the best versions of themselves! This means that trialling out exactly how you want your hair and makeup to look on the day is a must! Whether that be doing it by yourself or leaving it to the professionals. A hair trial is your opportunity to work with someone who knows exactly what they are doing, to perfect the look you’re after. If you are between minds on hairstyles, this is no problem, trying multiple out helps you to narrow down the perfect look for you and means you can feel at ease and put your trust into the hair stylist as now they know exactly what you want – and they will deliver! A little advice before going for your hair trial – firstly, be completely transparent and honest, if you do not like the way something turns out, tell them! I can assure you, your hair stylist wants to make you feel amazing as much as you want to feel amazing, so making sure to tell them where you want changes is vital! Also, if you are planning on wearing hair accessories on your big day, for example, a tiara or veil, it is a good idea to take sample pieces for your stylist to try out with your desired look! Being able to practice different layouts of your accessories will 100% help to top off any look, then come the big day, you will feel on top of the world!
11. Invitations
The style of your wedding invitations is one of your first opportunities to really set the tone for your big day! If you are planning to stick to a colour theme, incorporating these colours into invitations / save the dates is a lovely, subtle way to give your guests a sneak peek into the beauty of what is to come! Adding floral details which match your bouquet would also be a lovely touch! There are so many ways in which you can make your wedding invitations unique to you, from handwritten invitations to add your own personal flare to even electronic invitations (because you can do anything online these days!).
12. Justin Alexander
Justin Alexander. ‘Classic, Refined and Timeless!’. Justin Alexander’s label first started all the way back in 1946 in New York City and has since expanded to over 1500 retailers across the world! Justin Alexander gowns embody luxury at its finest, with 4 different collections within the brand, all of which display the true array of the designer’s talents! Justin Alexander gowns ooze pure elegance and class whilst incorporating hints of Hollywood glamour, every single dress is a hit and if you hadn’t considered their gowns before, we strongly recommend you do. Pure bliss!
13. (Sealed with A) Kiss
The kiss! Your first kiss as newlyweds, and the most perfect way to put an end to a beautiful ceremony! The moment you have waited for for so long, to finally get to kiss your new husband/wife! The term sealed with a kiss actually originated in the war time, where servicemen would write the phrase on the back of envelopes that they would be sending home to their partners, to indicate that they kissed it as an act of sending their love back home. Romantic then and romantic now, an all-round beautiful moment, sure to stick with you forever – so make it last!!
14. Low Back
Low Backs? yes, yes YES! This gorgeous dress feature is delicate, elegant and sexy all in one! Whether it be a cut-out back, a completely bare low back or even low cut lined with stunning illusion lace detail, it is a yes from us! Low Backs can be a feature on absolutely any style of dress, fit and flare, princess, a line – you name it! So if you are a bride who has always dreamed of wearing a princess dress whilst finding yourself attracted to the beauty of a low back, you won’t have to make any compromise because that dress is out there for you! Low backs can also work with absolutely any neckline, from a structured sweetheart neckline to a fully embellished sleeved gown, the options are endless! Finding a boutique that offers (what appears to be) an endless array of styles for you to try is key when searching for THE ONE.
15. Moodboard
When starting to plan your wedding, you may be faced with a little moment of panic in thinking ‘where do I even start?!’, and you will find there is a lot you need to think about, but starting with creating your own pinterest/handmade moodboards can be a perfect way to begin putting the foundation of your big day together, to make the whole journey feel that slightest bit easier! You could make as many as you feel will help the process! Things to include could be different colour schemes, table decorations, bridal gowns – the list goes on! Moodboards on one hand, can be greatly beneficial on the organisation front, as it can help you to work your way through the jobs that you know need to be done. On the other hand, if you are finding yourself to be quite indecisive, having different options and comparing them side by side can be a good way to help you narrow down to your favourites! So, if you haven’t thought about starting your own yet, it is definitely worth giving it a go!
16. Mori Lee
Mori Lee. This stunning brand was founded in 1953 as a family business. Each Mori Lee gown starts as a hand-drawn sketch in NYC and is developed from that moment on, and it has been this way for generations! Mori Lee is a brand who specialise in both unbelievable bridal gowns as well as a stunning array of bridesmaid dresses! The versatility within Mori Lee’s collections is out of this world, designing dresses of all styles, materials, colours and prices! No matter what style of dress you are looking for, Mori Lee will be sure to have something to offer you! At ‘The Dressing Rooms’ in Birmingham, we are a premier stockist of Mori Lee bridal gowns, meaning we hold the best price point in the UK, as well as having the ability to get any dress from the collection into store. So, if you are finding yourself drawn to Mori Lee, we are definitely the boutique to visit!
17. Nerves
It’s the morning of the first day of the rest of your life. You’ve just woken up, your bridesmaids are singing with joy and preparing to get you ready for your big day, but you can’t shake that crazy feeling in your tummy, so take a deep breath, have a celebratory glass of champers and enjoy the ride, because one day you will look back on this feeling with so much love and so many beautiful memories of the day that followed. Pre wedding jitters, every bride gets them, as does every groom, so if you’re ever feeling like a bit of a lemon with those constant butterflies fluttering around, the one thing to remember is you are not alone! Throughout the day, those nervous butterflies will change into feelings of unbelievable love and happiness as everything you have planned for the big day has worked out exactly as you had hoped, if not even better. You will eventually realise that what you thought were flutters of nerves, were not about the day running smoothly or whether the food will be as good as you remembered, but were more so feelings of delight and overwhelming excitement to finally be marrying the love of your life, so cherish them!
18. Officiant
A Wedding Officiant is any person who performs the role of officiating a legal marriage ceremony. This can include all types of people, from friends or family members who have never performed a wedding ceremony before and will likely never perform one again, to professional wedding officiants who perform hundreds of ceremonies a year. If you are planning to get married in a church, it is likely your wedding officiant will be a priest, however if you are planning a more intimate service, and want to add your own personal flair, having a loved one officiate your big day could be such a wonderful memory to share and reminisce on for the rest of your lives. Either way, the officiant of your wedding is the person who makes your marriage to the love of your life final, so whether they are a loved one or not, you will forever be grateful for the part they played in your special day!
19. Photographer
The photographer. The person who captures all of the raw, beautiful moments that your wedding day holds, from photographs of the dream dress, the first kiss as newlyweds, to the cutting of the cake. The person you can rely on to display all of the memories of your big day to you in picture form, that you will look back on and cherish for the rest of your life! Finding a photographer you can trust is so important, as well as finding one who works in a style that will compliment the finest details of your day perfectly! Every bride says that their wedding day flies by in what feels like the blink of an eye. You are so distracted by the endless hugs, kisses and glasses of champagne the day has to offer that you wish you could do it over and over again, just to be able to witness all of the moments that you may have missed! That is exactly what the photographer is there to do, they capture all of the memories! Of course, you will have the planned photographs of you and your new husband/wife, which we all LOVE, but what often goes unnoticed is the candid moments they can capture too, the moments of pure joy, laughter and fun, and being able to look back on the wonderful memories of your loved ones celebrating your love story, is something you will be forever thankful for!
20. Place Setting
Place Settings. You walk into the reception following the most beautiful ceremony you could ever have hoped for, to the room decked out with the finest table decorations and place settings for your guests. This is another aspect of your wedding that you can make completely unique to you and your big day. Even down to the most subtle details, such as the font used, the colours and even the party favours! When it comes to place settings, the options really are endless, from beautifully handwritten name cards and menus, to personalised napkins or crockery, nothing is too big or too small and your guests will love it regardless because they love you – so make it your own!
21. Questions
Throughout your wedding planning journey, you will likely find that you have hundreds of questions running through your mind every day, and we cannot stress enough how important it is, whether you think it may sound small or silly, that you ask them all. The main reason for this is that, your wedding journey should be an exciting and joyful experience from start to finish, and you don’t want this to be tarnished with worry, or the feeling of being in the dark regarding any detail of your big day! The suppliers you use will want to be there for you every step of the way and are the people with all of the answers to anything playing on your mind, whether it be the dress, the cake, the venue – anything! So, to keep your mind at peace, get them off your chest. We promise it will help!
22. Reception
Your wedding reception! Now ladies, if you have always loved the idea of planning how your reception will look/feel, this really is your time to shine and to go to town on the planning front! The attention that you pay to all of the subtle details and features within your wedding reception really can take your big day from a 10/10 to an 11! This doesn’t have to refer to just the aesthetics of course, but also to features such as having a DJ/band, a dancefloor with a playlist so good you never want it to end, maybe even including a photobooth / polaroid camera book where guests can leave messages!
The list of possibilities to really make your big celebration unique to you, is endless and it is always so exciting to see how couples add their own flair to their day! It is the time where your loved ones can truly rejoice in your love, with dancing, singing, laughing, drinking (sometimes a little too much!) and overall showing overwhelming feelings of happiness. Memories to last a lifetime!
23. Seamstress
Seamstresses. When we say that these people are miracle workers, we truly mean it! The seamstress you choose is the person who will take your dream dress, which of course we are already madly in love with, and make it yours. When you first find the one, your stylist can manipulate the dress to show you how it will eventually look but you still have the most exciting day to come! The day that you get to see the most stunning gown, tailored to fit you like a glove, hugging every curve and enhancing your gorgeous shape! Brides often worry that when it comes to alterations, it’ll mean that they have to compromise parts of the dress, such as the shape, or pattern of applique but we strongly advise you put all of your trust into your seamstress! They are trained in this field and will not finish a job until they know that it is perfect and until they know that you are over the moon with it! Being completely honest with your seamstress is so important, this is your dress and therefore you want it to be everything you have always dreamed, and your seamstress can make those dreams come true!
24. TDR Bridal
Accept nothing less than perfection! We have mentioned previously, how important it is to find a bridal boutique that you can wholeheartedly trust when on the journey to finding THE dress and The Dressing Rooms in Birmingham is 100% that place! At TDR we pride ourselves on the experience our brides receive. To us, it is not just about the dress (although obviously that is extremely exciting), it is also about the service that we can provide, from start to finish. We are there for every single bride, every step of the way! We have a group of wonderful stylists that we can assure you, you can put all of your trust in! We aim to make the experience as blissful as possible for every bride, from a glass of fizz on arrival, to cheering in celebration when you find the one (we would be lying if we said we don’t shed a tear every now and then as well!). With over 400 gowns in store, you have the opportunity to try on as many styles as you need, to put your mind at ease that the dress you have chosen truly is the best of the best and is perfect for you! After 13 years of business, we grow stronger and stronger every day, as a team and as the TDR family. We love each and every one of our brides and are so lucky to play a part in so many incredible women’s journey to becoming a bride!
25. Underwear
‘What underwear should I wear for my big day?’ – a question we are repeatedly asked, and we completely understand why! Firstly, when dress shopping, if you feel you could easily visualise what a gown would look like without a VPL, it isn’t that important what underwear you decide to wear. However, if you want to see how the dress will look in its truest form, we would advise wearing seamless, skin toned underwear, because we appreciate it can be difficult to imagine yourself wearing a dress down the aisle when you are distracted by a bright pink pair of pants! In terms of wearing a bra on your wedding day, you won’t need one! Seamstresses tailor the dress to fit you so perfectly that you will be 100% secure in your gown! We like to say you could do a cartwheel and nothing will move (but maybe don’t try that one!). Despite all of this, it is all personal preference and the most important piece of advice we can give is that comfort is key! Ladies, wear whatever makes you feel the most comfortable and what makes you feel amazing! There is no right or wrong, as long as you are happy in your decision, that’s the most important!
26. Veil
The Veil. Wearing a veil, although very traditional, may not be for everyone! For others, it can be the finishing touch to top off your look! Veils come in all styles and designs, similar to dresses. If you are set on the idea of a veil but aren’t sure of the style you’d like, it is definitely worth trying a load of different styles out whilst wearing your dream dress, to see which one makes you feel the most amazing overall! Veils come in several different lengths, from shoulder length to cathedral, and even longer than that! You can also get veils in either a single tier or 2 tiers, depending on the desired look you are after! Veils can often be completely plain, so if you want all of the attention to be on the dress, plain veils are definitely an option to consider! On the other hand you can also get veils with a satin edge, a lace trim or even beaded all over, so if you have a little bit of glitz throughout your gown and want the veil to match, there will definitely be one out there for you! At ‘The Dressing Rooms’, we have over 30 different styles of veil to try on, so it is 100% the place to visit!
27. Wedding Planner
Some brides may love the idea of planning their big day themselves and have looked forward the opportunity for years! Whilst others may prefer to hire a wedding planner! There are several benefits to hiring a wedding planner. First and foremost, they’re experts! This is the career they work in day in, day out, so when it comes to planning a wedding, you can rest assured they know exactly what needs to be done! On top of this, they will have all of the best resources and connections to really bring your vision to life, the right planner will turn your dream wedding from a fantasy to a reality, so it is important to find somebody you trust! On the first initial meeting with a planner, it is important to make sure that the two of you are on the same page and share the same vision. Whether you’re envisioning an elaborate church ceremony or a rustic barn celebration, the right planner will have access to all of the best venues and suppliers to make it perfect for you! So, if you feel that planning a wedding yourself could become too overwhelming, hiring a planner could definitely be an option to consider!
28. Your Special Day
Something many brides tend to focus on when planning a wedding, is making it perfect for all of their loved ones, as of course, you want it to be a celebration that everybody looks back on with the fondest of memories. But ladies, you must remember that this celebration is all about you and your Mr/Mrs! Make sure to take a step back every once in a while, even if it is for just 5 minutes of the day, and really relish in the moments with your new husband/wife! This is your special day and as much as we all want to please other people, the most important people to please are yourselves! You will adore your wedding day regardless but allowing yourself to take in every beautiful moment you can, will make your big day all the more special! Trust us!
29. Zander
Dare to be different with Zander. Oh WOW Zander! Now, we know this isn’t necessarily ‘wedding terminology’ but, I am sure you can all appreciate that this beauty deserves her own moment in the limelight! Zander is one of many incredible gowns, created by the wonderful minds of designers, Sottero & Midgley! In 3 different colours, black, ivory and champagne, this beauty of a gown could be fitting for absolutely any bride! With an unbelievable illusion lace bodice, fully embellished sleeves and a plunge neckline and back, this gown embodies elegance at its finest and will hug you perfectly in all the right places! Not to mention the full skirt, a mix of heavy lace applique, with a stunning, delicate under layer of traditional Chantilly lace. There is no better word for it, but outstanding! The attention to detail in this gown, is heavenly. There is not one part of this dress that won’t blow your mind. If you are a princess bride, you do not want to miss out on Zander! A DREAM!
30. Zip, Button or Corset? – Fastenings
The fastening on your dream dress is most likely something you haven’t thought too in depth about, as understandably we are more focused on the overall look and the way the dress makes us feel! However, the fastening of your gown is another design feature which can add such subtle beauty and can really finish off the look! Often, with zip backs, brides feel that the dress speaks for itself already, and doesn’t need any extras. For example, if there is already an abundance of beautiful detail, you may not want to add buttons or have a corset back put in as you don’t want anything to detract from the beauty the dress already holds! Button fastenings, they can add so much elegance to a gown, and are a fantastic addition if you want to achieve a delicate, romantic look! From satin covered, to glitzy jewelled buttons, they can really enhance the back of a gown – any style, size or combination! Corset backs, not only do they look stunning and ever so classy, but the true bonus is the structure they can provide! They really allow for flexibility and if you are looking to be cinched in at the waist, with a tight-fitting bodice, then a corset back would be a great option for you! Of course, no fastening is more beautiful than the next, they simply have different benefits and uses, so whichever you go for is 100% going to make for a beautiful feature on your PERFECT dress!
So here we are again, with lockdown ruining all those romantic plans for valentine’s day… but do not fear! We have been doing our research and have found some amazing Valentine’s Day Ideas for all you gorgeous couples. So, grab your partner *hint hint* and a glass of something sparkling and enjoy the ideas we have found!
Let’s take a positive from this… at least you don’t have to endure a restaurant full of couples with an overpriced valentine’s day set menu… you can swap all this to celebrate in style in the comfort of your own home.
Valentine’s Day Ideas
1. Candle Lit Dinner
So, you can’t go out to your favourite restaurant but you also cant bear to spend another night sitting in front of the TV. So why not bring the restaurant to you? Set out your table with flowers and candles, your favourite bottle of wine and prepare your own 3 course meal and together, with your partner, cook up an absolute storm for you both to enjoy! Or.. for those who don’t want to spend the evening cooking, lots of restaurant are delivering straight to your door, including:
Sabai Sabai
A family-run restaurant in the heart of Harborne who specialise in fresh, authentic Thai dishes. If you want a little spice and something a little different, this is definitely your restaurant and they’re now delivering straight to your door.
Ox and Origin
The private catering and pop-up restaurant are now providing delivery in Birmingham. They provide bespoke cocktails, and modern European food, using high quality ingredients, so if you want a real restaurant meal and fancy cocktails delivered straight to your door, then these guys are the ones.
Buddha Belly
Thai street food delivered right to your door, what’s not to love?! Their menus go from spicy curries to crispy chicken and noodles, all meals are cooked and simply just need reheating and prices start from just £10, YUM!
Baked in Brick
A Digbeth restaurant in the heart of Birmingham known for their iconic Sunday roasts to their yummy mac n cheese. Take a look at their Instagram to see just how gorgeous their meals look, it will have your mouth watering! @bakedinbrick
2. Valentine’s Day Yummy Treats
Couture Cakes
Couture Cake Company Brownie & Biscuit Box
For those of you that don’t know our lovely Victoria, she is a TDR Bride who bakes the most incredible wedding cakes, but most recently (as I’m sure many of you have already seen) has started baking ‘letterbox brownies’ to be delivered as a treat from me to me, or a treat to a loved one, right through your letterbox. They are AMAZING (trust us – we’ve tried!).
Victoria has now introduced a valentine’s day brownie and biscuit box, the perfect valentines gift! The box contains two heart shaped brownies, two yummy iced shortbread biscuits and two geometric chocolate covered brownies. Each item is individually wrapped and surrounded by mini marshmallows and white chocolate covered pretzels. Victoria will also pop a little gift note in to if you are sending to a loved one!
What a fabulous valentine’s day gift for any foodie/chocolate lover.
Farm House Cakes Valentines Options
Our lovely friends from Farmhouse Cakes have created some Valentine’s options for couples that look just yummy! You can choose from either:
Box 1 – A luxury shortbread box £18
Box 2 – A fun shortbread heart with a hundred and thousand love style surprise inside (we can add a secret note inside if you wish) and 12 raspberry macaroons £26
Box 3 – For lovers of cupcakes box, your choice of 2 cupcake flavours, menu will be sent upon enquiring £35
Box 4- The Ultimate Indulge Box!!!
2 cake spheres, 2 buttercream cupcakes, 2 cake pops, 4 macaroons, 5 shortbreads. All on a bed of marshmallows and love themed sweeties £40. Cake menu will be sent upon enquiring.
All their boxes will be wrapped with ribbon, a single rose, and an option for a valentine’s balloon to be tied on too. Each box also comes with a little tag that you can write on.
Charlotte has said: “If you wish to send it to someone in secret we can adapt words on any of the items and also colour combinations.”
What a lovely YUMMY treat!!!
3. Recreate your favourite memories
Why not make things a little more fun by recreating your favourite memories together?! Or… make a video of them!
What more could your partner wish for, an evening spent reminiscing on all your lovely memories, in the comfort of your own home. Then spend the rest of the evening by creating a themed evening based upon your favourite place in the world, have a cocktail night to remind you of your favourite holiday cocktail, or you dress up and play your favourite song on the speakers… the options are endless!
However, you may be spending your Valentine’s day, there are certainly so many ways to make it a special one. There is so much to celebrate, so much to be thankful for. So, cherish every single memory and spend the evening making even more!
